I brought the twins over to my house this afternoon for a sleepover. They never cease to amaze me with their humor and tenderness. Here are a few examples so far, and it's only been a few hours.
1) As I was putting Carson down for his nap he asked me to sing "Puff The Magic Dragon". I did, but didn't remember all the words. I told him we could look up the song on the computer after naps. I found several sites, including old video of the originals -- Peter, Paul and Mary. But I also found a cute cartoon with the song. I didn't remember the words, and learned that little Jackie Paper didn't come back to play with his friend, Puff the Magic Dragon because he grew up. The kids both asked me about that and I thought I explained it OK and we continued to listen. When the song was done, I put Carson down and realized Ruby was silently sitting on my lap with tears streaking down her little cheeks. I asked why she was crying and she couldn't talk -- the tears gave way to giant sobs, with the huh, huh, huh sounds one makes when they are crying oh-so-completely. I enveloped her in my arms and just held her while she cried. Finally I got out of her that she was sad because Jackie Paper grew up and Puff was left alone to go back into his lonely cave. She said she didn't want to grow up. She was sobbing so hard I could hardly get her to stop. Once she stopped, we went down stairs to watch a show, and she seemed OK -- except for minutes later she was still doing the huh, huh, huh that ones does after a big cry.
2) During bath time Carson was doing a really great job of washing himself. He even got behind his knee and announced "people sometimes forget to wash behind their knees!" Ruby was goofing off and not washing herself so I reminded her about it and said "don't forget to wash your arm pit." To that she replied, "don't forget to wash your leg pit!" (referring to the area behind the knee!)
3) As I placed the lunch plate down in front of Carson, he spontaneously said "Hello sandwich!"
4) At dinner tonight -- totally out of the blue -- Carson asked me "Grandma, why do you live by yourself? You need another person to live here with you." (such a tender little man!)
5) Ruby -- "Grandma what is this?" "It's just part of the pasta." "Grandma WHAT is it?" "Ruby, it's just part of the pasta. It's good." "But Grandma, what is it really?" "It's a mushroom!" "Grandma, I don't eat cooked mushrooms. I only eat raw mushrooms!" "OK, you don't have to eat it, but it's really really good!"
6) Shortly after getting the kids to bed tonight Carson cried out to me. I went into him and he said he had a bad dream. We prayed and he seemed OK. Then he said "grandma, pray that I dream about diggers!" (That's why I put an excavator on top of his 4th birthday cake! See June 2012 blog entry.)
7) Ruby -- "Sometimes I get up in the middle of the night and sneak into Mommy and Daddy's room and check on them!"