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Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Risa Comes Into Our Lives for 3 Weeks!


Over the past 30 years I have hosted numerous foreign exchange students in my home  --  10 Japanese, 1 Taiwanese and 1 New Zealander.   Mt. Hood Community College has a program where they have Japanese students over for 3 weeks for English study, travel and learning American culture from host families.  I opened my home to Risa -- a dear sweet 19 year old who was the smallest Japanese girl I have ever hosted.  I mean, this girl was tiny!  But so full of energy, life and joy.   I was so happy to introduce her to Carson and Ruby and she adored them (who wouldn't?)

 
I showed her how to bake cookies and she got right in there and did it herself! She was able to take some to college to share with her friends!  
 
I was most eager for her to teach the children origami. 


I just remembered that the first time we hosted a Japanese student Kristin was just about the same age as the twins -- and Kat was still in diapers!  


This was her very first day of attending college in America.  I had to laugh, because her outfit was almost exactly like Ruby's school uniform -- the plaid skirt with white top.  Risa really understood what I meant when I took her with me one day to pick up the twins and she saw all the little girls in their uniforms!  

Risa plays the traditional Japanese drums, Taiko, and was invited to participate in a class at a local church with children from ages 5-15.  Risa has competed in competition in Japan with her Taiko group and scored very high.   She gave a demonstration that thrilled the children (and shocked me at how much power and strength she possessed).  She taught them some techniques and played with them.  These children attend Japanese immersion schools in Portland and even spoke Japanese.    I was able to pick Carson and Ruby up from school and take them with us because the location was just a short distance from their school.  Ruby was on the edge of her seat and so very interested.  Carson, on the other hand, wasn't.  (that too surprised me). 


Risa tucked away in the midst of the children.  She was so pleased to have this experience in America. 


 
One afternoon I was able to pick up Lily (the little girl who lived next to where I used to live and is Ruby's age) and bring her to my  house.  Lily and Ruby have played together in the past, and when I get them together, it is as if they are long-lost-BFF's.  Risa was teaching them more origami.  




After a quiet time of making origami, it was off to the park.  Risa was right in there playing with them on the equipment, and enjoying herself with the girls.  



 
I was able to take Risa to Adidas so she could get some shoes from their employee store. 

 
I didn't know what her size would be, so I asked one of the employees to measure her.  Well, it turns out we had to leave the women's section and go to the children's section.  She wore size 2 in children's.  That's Ruby and Carson's size!  Risa was so happy with a great pair of new shoes and she even chose a bright pink color.  (Japanese tend to wear darker colors).  I asked her if she wore children's shoes in Japan, and I think she was a bit insulted
"No I wear adult shoes!"  

Ok, so here she is wearing one of Carson's shoes and one of Ruby's shoes!  Oh yeah -- she taught the kids to always give a peace sign when taking a picture.  I asked her why Japanese always seem to do that and her response.....  "I don't know.  It's tradition."  I asked her if she knew what it means, or where it came from, and she did not.  I explained to her about the 60's in America and the PEACE sign! 


 
One afternoon at Mt. Hood College, they were having cultural day.  The students dressed up in Japanese wear (kimonos and the like) and demonstrated/taught various things like origami, painting, cartooning, music and served  lots of good food.  Risa wore a traditional outfit for playing the Taiko drums -- they were able to rent a drum and Risa gave a demonstration.  I was so proud of her!  I think the American students were shocked at how good she was. 
When we got home she was exhausted.  Risa  fell asleep in the living room and slept for 3  hours -- in this position!  

Risa has a dog back in Japan (howbeit, a small one), and really enjoyed Snowy.  

At the good bye party all the students received a certificate of completion for their college program in Japan.  Each one had to give a speech in English, and the tears were flowing.  They were thanking their American host families for taking care of them.  Risa mentioned enjoying going to Costco, my church and meeting Ruby and Carson.  

The Friday night before Risa left on Sunday morning, I was blessed to have a visit from Fusae.  She lived with us about 12 years ago in Kirkland.  She hadn't been back to America since graduating from college and it was such a joy to see her again.  She has grown into a lovely young woman, so full of poise.  I was very pleased to introduce Fusae to Risa.  

 Early Sunday morning I dropped Risa off at the Portland airport with the other students, and we said sayonara.  She cried and held on tight to me.  I guess she enjoyed herself!  


A few weeks after Risa returned to Japan, she was able to travel to her home (from where she is attending college) and visit her family, including her dog.  I love this picture with the cherry blossoms in the background.  Risa looks so lovely!  It's the best photo I have of her!  

Sunday, April 26, 2015

A Much Overdue Visit to Aptos

I have what I call "Aptos withdrawal pains" that hit me about once a year or so.  I found a super cheap ticket and flew down to be with my dear friends for my birthday, and to meet two of Gretchen's new grand babies. 
 

 
This is dear sweet Matthew, who was adopted from Ethiopia by Cat and Kenny and brought to his forever home and family in May 2014.  I am holding him for the first time in these photos.  

 
Since Cat and Kenny are temporarily living with Gretchen and James, I got to see them all a whole bunch over the 4 days I was there.  
Gretchen's youngest daughter, Sara, had baby Kai a few months prior.  Gretchen takes care of him one day a week, so of course I got to tag along.   (both Kai and their puggle were posing for me)

 
We took Kai on a long walk around Ben Lomond --
their home in the Santa Cruz Mountains. 


 
Of course Gretchen and I took numerous walks on the gorgeous beaches and had to take a selfie!   She knows how much I love the beach and makes sure we have our walks.  
 
For lunch one day we ate outside at the Santa Cruz harbor.  Across the water is the Crows Nest, a restaurant my family used to frequent when we lived in Aptos. 

The weather was absolutely perfect the entire time I was there. 


A perfect toy for a little man whose Daddy is a Santa Cruz County Sheriff!

 
Matthew loves bouncing on the trampoline. 

 
Here's little Lucy ready for school, wearing Ruby's hand-me-down shirt and shoes!  She was pleased to be wearing them. 
 
 
For some strange reason, Kenny had promised Maize he would take her on the roof of the garage if she did well with one of her school projects!  I was there to photograph the event, while Maize's mother, Cat, ran inside due to her fear of heights. 



 
Of course little sister, Lucy, also wanted in on the action.  (By the way, Kenny was on the roof with them the entire time, but outside of this photo).  I felt my job was to be there to catch one of them if it became necessary!  
 
Well, if his sisters were on the roof, then of course 2 year old Matthew wanted to be there too.  Cat came running out to take a peek, and quickly dashed back inside. 


Maize is a real drama queen  (in the best sense of the word!) 
Or maybe I should say "theatrical"!!

 


They had a perfect view of the lovely sunset.
Miss Drama again!


Quite the little athlete as well.  I took these to show Carson all her soccer awards!
On Saturday while Sara got her hair done, Gretchen and I met her and took Kai for a VERY long stroll along the Santa Cruz beach.  He was almost perfect for 2 hours.  Here he is getting one last love from momma Sara before we whisked him off. 
 



 
The Santa Cruz Boardwalk in the distance.  This was the perfect way for me to spend a Saturday morning!  

 
Pretty much, I was right there with Gretchen as she cared for her grand babies.  I had such fun bonding with Matthew at the park and teaching him to blow a dandelion.  He really got it!







 The last day Gretchen wanted to teach me how to make her famous toffee candy.  She had worked years on perfecting the recipe, procedure, utensils, etc.  Everything had to be PERFEFT. And believe me, it was!



 
Catherine has had to learn many things about being the mother to a BOY and especially one with different hair.  She says it works best to fuss with his hair while he is eating, because he LOVES to eat and can be distracted by the food.  
 This was my last moment spent with Matthew and Cat.  Since Cat and Kenny will be leaving in July for the mission field in Thailand, I knew it would be a long while before I saw them again.  This photo was taken with tears flowing. 


As I read over this post, I realize I have used the word "perfect" many times.  I guess I would say my trip to Aptos was PERFECT!  Thank you dear friends for making it so............